David Michael Valenta, known affectionately as Commander, Dad, Daddy, or Grandpa, passed away on Thursday, December 5, 2024, at his home “Moon Wind Castle,” in Moon, Virginia. He was number 11 of 13 children born to Febronia and Bohus Valenta. David was born on August 2, 1942 in Endicott, New York. A graduate of Henry B. Endicott Primary School and Union Endicott High School, David’s early education laid the foundation for his illustrious career and his lifelong passion for learning and improvement.
David was a proud Vietnam War veteran and dedicated serviceman, committing 28 years to the U.S. Navy. Rising through the ranks beginning as an enlisted sailor, he retired as a Lieutenant Commander, a testament to his hard work and dedication to his country.
After his military career, David continued to apply his leadership skills as a Superintendent of crane and rigging operations at MHI Ship Repair & Services, where he was equally respected for his work ethic and ability to manage complex projects. His industrious nature was also evident in his personal life, where he single-handedly built two homes, showcasing his remarkable self-taught skills in construction and problem-solving.
David was a devoted husband to his beloved wife, Dolores Marie (Tietjen) Valenta (a.k.a. Lorrie), and a loving father to his children, David Michael Jr. (Beth) and Jennifer Lynn Valenta Tietjen. His legacy continues through his grandchildren, Dustin Tietjen, Brandon Tietjen-Abner, and Sage Tietjen-Forsythe, as well as his five remaining siblings. He was preceded in death by his parents, Febronia and Bohus Valenta, and seven siblings.
David will be remembered for his love of country, his unyielding work ethic, and his ability to inspire those around him. His contributions to his family, his community, and his nation leave an indelible mark that will not be forgotten.
The family will receive friends on Saturday, December 14, 2024 from 10 a.m. to noon at the Church of Francis de Sales, Mathews, with a Mass of Resurrection following at noon. Burial will be at a later date in Arlington National Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Church of Francis de Sales, 176 Lovers Lane, Mathews, Va. 23109.
Faulkner Funeral Homes, Foster-Faulkner Chapel, Mathews, is assisting the family.